“I didn’t expect for this book to make me laugh which it quickly proved wrong. There’s even a part on finding connection through humor discourse! I really connected with the section about lack of discourse in college(& how to encourage it!), studying our tone, practicing active listening and the human connection. I have social anxiety and this book was actually very helpful in making me want to go and have hard conversations with people. I like how this also examines where social media is coming into play.”

“I’m Just Saying’ by Milan Kordestani hits close to home for me, as I spent a long time learning that there’s a difference between a disagreement and an argument. I love that this book explains that you can disagree with someone and have an actual discussion without fighting. I don’t think enough people understand this, and it is fracturing our world at a massive level.”

“This exceptional work invites readers to navigate discourse with grace, and in doing so, advocates for a more harmonious and united society. I learned with this book that discussing with others respectfully is not only a matter of politeness, but also a powerful tool for fostering understanding, building relationships, and driving positive change in personal, social, and professional contexts.”

“Kordestani's book is a comprehensive resource that navigates the challenges of dialogue in a society marked by divisions. Through historical contexts, personal anecdotes, and contemporary insights, the book presents practical strategies for engaging in productive conversations and avoiding misunderstandings. It emphasizes the importance of seeking common ground and fostering understanding, essential for bridging divides. By embracing the techniques outlined in the book, readers can enhance their communication skills and contribute to building a more cohesive and empathetic society.”

"In a diverse and complex world like the one we are living in, these kinds of books are incredibly useful to have meaningful conversations with people who have different opinions and points of view than yours. I’m Just Saying by Milan Kordestani is truly a masterpiece. This guide is necessary and if you are leading a group of people, I recommend you to share this book with them."

“I’m Just Saying: A Guide to Maintaining Civil Discourse in an Increasingly Divided World” offers valuable insights on how to engage in respectful conversations, even when opinions differ. The author’s writing is concise yet impactful, providing practical strategies for fostering understanding and empathy. By emphasizing the importance of active listening, open-mindedness, and empathy, the book equips readers with the tools to navigate challenging discussions constructively. The book is a must-read for anyone seeking to bridge and promote meaningful dialogue in today’s complex and divided landscape.”